First, a warning: this blog discusses the abuse of children. We’re writing it because we know that every parent shares a fear that something bad will happen to their children, and at the top of the list, for most parents, is sexual abuse. One of the very worst things that could happen, perhaps, would be to fall in love and have a child with someone, then find out they were an abuser. It would be a natural instinct to do everything you could to keep your child safe, and you would probably feel that keeping them away from the abuser…